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Dates that happen.

Three weeks of "haha" and still no date? Pick a plan, not a profile: a salsa night, rooftop drinks, a walk by the river. The activity is the first date.

No swiping. No matching. No messaging.

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Date

Speakeasy for six

Wingperson welcome

When

Wednesday

20:30

Where

Speakeasy, New York

Exact place the day before

5 going · 1 spot left

No faces or names before you're in.

Hosted by Ashley

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Date

Shelter dog walk

Wingperson welcome

When

Thursday

10:00

Where

Animal shelter, Los Angeles

Exact place the day before

5 going · 1 spot left

No faces or names before you're in.

Hosted by Michael

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Date

Climbing for singles

Wingperson welcome

When

Friday

19:00

Where

Climbing gym, Chicago

Exact place the day before

5 going · 1 spot left

No faces or names before you're in.

Hosted by Jennifer

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Safety before chemistry

Safe, respected, in control.

  • 🛡️ Real people, public places

    • Everyone here takes a selfie, which is checked by a person.
    • Public places only, never a home or a hotel.
    • No private messages: on my way, running late, here.
    • Leave whenever you want. Nothing to decide tonight.

    How we keep you safe

  • 🙈 Blurred until you're both going

    • Before you join, a count, not faces.
    • A host is visible only to people whose dating preferences align with theirs.
    • With three or more guests, only an age range is shown. Your bio is never displayed.
    • Nobody counts your dates: the only number shown is your show rate.

  • 🔒 Flirtify stays on Flirtify

    • Your dates never show in Bondable or Hangout.
    • Never in public search, never with an outside AI.
    • We keep a rough area, never where you are. Your face stays on our servers.
    • No ads, ever.

    What we collect, and why

Skip straight to the good part.

You match. You message. Three days of "so what do you do?" Then nothing.

Two hours doing something together tell you more than two weeks of texting. How do they treat the waiter? Do they listen? You can't swipe your way to that.

How it works

Sign up in twenty seconds: who you are, who you'd like to meet, a few photos, a quick selfie.

  1. See dates near you

  2. Join

  3. The address is revealed the day before

  4. Find each other

Leaving early is completely fine.

Pick the date, not the profile.

Group dates first: a dinner for six, no one-to-one pressure, and you leave when you want. Public places only. Who pays is set before you join: free, we split, or the host covers it. The amount is the bill, never a price for anyone's company.

  • Romantic Dinner
  • Wine & Cocktails
  • Date Night
  • Coffee Date
  • Romantic Walk
  • Surprise Me

Any date can be for two or for a group, up to 12. A date for two is shown only when each person meets the other's dating preferences, as set in Flirtify.

Make the first move.

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